‘Twas the Night Before Christmas - 40 Something Syle

’Twas the night before Christmas, midlife at its peak,
The house finally quiet (for five minutes this week).
The kids were all home from college—oh joy, oh delight—
With clothes on the floor like it’s move-in day… every night.

The suitcases exploded, hoodies everywhere,
Shoes by the door, makeup stains on the chair.
Empty nester? Yes. But just for a beat—
Because now my washer’s running on repeat.

The strombolis were baked, the meatballs were slow,
Very Italian of me, in case you didn’t know.
Sauce simmering loudly, garlic heavy in air,
If you’re not loud in my kitchen—are you even there?

I squeezed in my workout (because balance is key),
Then rewarded myself with wine… obviously.
My last set was done, my protein was planned,
But tomorrow we carb-load like Nonna commanded.

The presents were wrapped—no bag left behind,
Lululemon for comfort, Coach for the shine.
UGGs by the tree for the college girl crew,
Because warmth and style is the least we can do.

I slipped on my Spanx leggings (my holiday shield),
Because leggings that forgive are my emotional support field.
Whether sitting, or standing, or hosting with flair,
Spanx understands me. They’ve been through this year.

Under my eyes? A situation, I fear,
So on went DRMTLGY patches—holiday cheer.
Depuff, revive, fake eight hours of sleep,
A Christmas Eve miracle I fully will keep.

The house smelled of cookies, espresso, and grace,
With red lipstick confidence glued to my face.
High heels kicked off (we’re not heroes, let’s chill),
Because comfort after 40 is absolutely a skill.

As I looked at the mess and the magic combined,
I smiled at this season—and this life I designed.
A little sarcastic, a little unhinged,
But grateful, glowing, and slightly binge-fringed.

So here’s to midlife, to laughter and wine,
To traditions, transitions, and boundaries divine.
To finding yourself—messy, bold, and adored—
And Spanx, sauce, and self-care (the real holiday trinity, Lord).

Merry Christmas to all, from your fab 40 Friend

May your holidays be happy,
And your wine glass never end
🎄🍷💋

💫 If this season has you reflecting on what’s next, come find me on the Find Yourself After 40 Podcast on Spotify—real conversations, real women, and real reinvention after 40.

📖 You can also read more on the blog at StaceyCreely.com, where we talk fashion, confidence, wellness, and finding you again—
at every stage of midlife.

🎙️🎄 Here’s to ending the year inspired—and starting the next one empowered.

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